I could not believe my ears. (or my eyes for that matter)
I watched and listened in horror and then disbelief as ten
city gals spoke about why they wanted to be considered for
the 'wife' of a farmer.
It was
the reality show, "Farmer takes a wife". 10
Girls from across the USA were headed to a farming community
to compete for the position as wife - and you know the rest
of the reality show story. One by one they get eliminated.
After
watching as they winced when they stepped their high heels
in cow pies, and squirmed and screamed while near mere chickens,
I chucked at the silliness of it all.
What
left me with my mouth dangling open was however were unrealistic
the expectations of farm life, the farming community, and
even the farmer himself. (One girl who was asked to leave
- called the farmer cheap and refused to leave without a departing
gift. ) And then I began to think.
Business
in itself is a reality show. How many of us enter the business
world with no real idea of what to expect? How many hours
should we be working? What is appropriate dress wear?
How much should we spend on advertising or marketing?
Do we get brochures or a website or both? And if we
are not careful we may find ourselves stepping in a different
type of cow pies - high heels and all!
One by
one, some of us will be eliminated form the reality
show of business. Unreal expectations and lack of knowledge
can grind us down until we slink back into a job. How
in the world can we be better prepared? Not all of us
can afford to attend school for several years and emerge with
an MBA. (and still sometime no knowledge of what to expect)
I cannot
stress how important mentors and coaches are. I learned
from the recent survey that you have a better than
50% higher chance of success - if you have a coach or a mentor.
In most cases they both save you time and money. Which
interestingly enough are the top 2 challenges businesses have.
On our
recent coaching coach tour - we had the opportunity to meet
with over 500 women in business. Many of the issues they faced
were solvable. They just needed help navigating the waters
of business.
This
fall for members we will be putting together special smaller
meetings for those who wish to move their businesses forward.
So keep your eyes and ears open. And let's cross the
finish line together! No woman left behind!
This
week consider looking for a mentor or coach to help you get
past the bumps and make your ride faster and smoother!
View
all our coaching packages here.
-------------Testimonial------------
Hi
Mandie,
I wanted to thank you for your excellent coaching over the
last several months. Because of your guidance, accountability,
and expertise I have been able to move my business to a new
level in a very short time. I appreciate your down to earth
and realistic approach. Your step by step teachings on how
to strategize, and make solid plans has been very beneficial
for me. Because of your coaching I am staying on track with
implementing all the different steps for my new and exiting
projects for the fall. I have been coached before by other
people and I know the difference on how I am moving forward
this time with your professional approach. Thank you so much,
and I am looking forward to our next session! Jeanine Crombé,
B Ed, CUG, EFT-CC, EFT-ADV, Advanced EFT Practitioner. For
upcoming EFT Courses please visit www.EFTforlife.com
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